Disowned Masculinity

I am again waking up to the realization of just how dissociated I am to my masculine energy. I became aware of this extreme dissociation¬†about a month ago (although it goes back years) but the…

Showing Up

You cannot fail if you just show up. Remember what Woody Allen said: 80% of success is just showing up. Sure, you can not get the result you wanted but you showed up, you went…

The Look

I see it all the time. That look. I used to think it was just me. That only I provoked it. Have to go and talk to someone you don’t know? Someone you don’t know…

Letting Go of The Ego

For so long I have struggled to let go of my sense of Self. Maybe that’s not even possible! But traditional spirituality would say otherwise. In fact, spirituality and all major spiritual traditions point to…

Fear of Letting Go of The Self

Likely the biggest obstacle for me on my spiritual journey is putting down my ego. The ego: the greatest source of human misery and triumph in our lifetime. For me, my ego has been a…